My 25 truths that I hope will inspire you to create a life that you cannot wait to wake up to!

  1. Life is short
  2. What doesn’t kill you makes you stronger
  3. We are animals and part of nature.  The more time you spend outside, the more connected you will feel to yourself and to everything.
  4. Embrace fear. Stepping out of your comfort zone physically is a sure fire way to grow mentally and emotionally.
  5. To lose weight and add years to your life, compress your eating window to 6-8 hours a day. It can change your life.
  6. Everything you label as “bad” in your life is a lesson – but you have to be awake to learn and show up to pass the test.
  7. The courage to live your truth starts with loving yourself. Loving and respecting yourself enough to feel deserving of your heart’s desire. 
  8. Happiness is the journey not the destination.
  9. “When you have your health, you have 1,000 dreams. When you don’t, you have only one.” – Indian Proverb. Clean up your diet and MOVE EVERYDAY!
  10. Saying HELL YES to new opportunities/activities WILL ultimately enhance your life!
  11. Just say NO. What can you eliminate from your life that is robbing you of time, energy and passion?
  12. Do more of what you love to do! Create your ideal day/week and design your life around what lights your soul on fire!
  13. “If you always do what you’ve always done, you’ll get what you’ve always gotten.”
  14. Replace “I do not have time to ________________(workout, meditate, talk to a friend, etc) with________________ “is not important to me,” and see how that’s feels. #toughlove
  15. Acknowledging the awesome will raise your vibration. Even a bad day is pretty fucking great if you wake up and are grateful for breathing. All the small things that make up your life: a cup of coffee, friends, pets, trail runs, sunsets, stars, dancing, laughs… me: hot, running water, an insanely good chicken quesadilla :) AKA be grateful.
  16. Happiness is an inside job. It is a choice in every moment.
  17. We are all connected.
  18. We are all energy. You attract experiences and relationships that match your vibrational frequency.
  19. Love is the greatest power of the universe!
  20. Every relationship we will ever have is an extension of the relationship we have with ourselves.
  21. Be a “light-house!” Exercise daily, eat healthy and fill your mind with positivity. And then go spread that love, light and positive energy out into your community. (Thanks Todd Durkin)
  22. … What we give out, we get back… energy, love, passion.
  23. Who is important to you? Say “Thank you” and “I love you” more frequently! (Refer to #1)
  24. No matter how much you workout or kale you eat, if you do not feed your heart and mind healthy ideas, healing energy and love, you are still going to be unhealthy.
  25. You are the captain of your own ship. Life is supposed to be fucking awesome! If it is not awesome, change it.

I hope a few of these points speak to you and give you the courage to follow your heart and live the life of your dreams. Trust journey, Trust yourself.

Quick Breathing Tips for Enhanced Health!

You have heard the saying, “you are what you eat.” That is not entirely true. You are not just what you eat, but what (nutrients) you absorb. And just because you take deep breaths does not mean the oxygen is actually getting to your tissues! 

When our bodies are oxygen deprived there is a greater chance  of muscles weakness/pain, “fogginess” or poor mental focus, sluggish digestion, insomnia, and even frequent sickness/infections. 

If you want to read more on the breathing subject, check out “The Oxygen Advantage” by Patrick McKeown. 

Here are a few quick and easy breathing tips that will enhance your health! 

1. Sit up straight (or lay down on the floor)

The straighter your spine the less compression on the lungs and more access to your diaphragm. 

Speaking of the diaphragm, it is the dome-shaped muscle just below the heart and lungs and is the primary muscle for breathing. Most of us are shallow breathers, meaning we only breath into our chest area.

2. Breath through your nose.

Your mouth was meant for eating, and your nose was meant for breathing. There are many benefits to nasal breathing but I am just going to mention two. Nasal breathing improves your body’s ability to utilize oxygen. As I mentioned above, the oxygen will have a better chance of getting to all of your muscles. Nasal breathing also stimulates our parasympathetic nervous system – rest, relax and digest part of our nervous system. 

*Practice breathing with your diaphragm:

Place your one hand on your chest and one hand on your belly. While inhaling through your nose, allow ONLY your belly-hand to rise. Follow that with a natural exhale through your nose. Continue for about 30-seconds or more. 

Once you have “mastered” that. Inhale through your nose with your belly rising, THEN allow your chest to rise for the last part of your inhalation. Follow by a natural escalation through the mouth. “Belly – Chest.”

*Bonus, you may even feel your back expand. If you are laying down then feel your back body (upper and lower ribs) press into the floor on your inhalations. If you are sitting up then feel your back body expand into your clothing. 

*click here to read more about the the importance of diaphragmatic breathing (XPT link)

3. Breathe to calm or energize your body and mind.                                                      To raise your energy (upregulate) before a workout or event:

 Inhale through the nose and exhale through the mouth. 1 breath in, 1 breath out (1:1)

To calm your energy. (Downregulate) during a stressful moment or before bed: 

Inhale through your nose for 3 seconds, and exhale through your nose 5-6 seconds. Studies have shown that if takes an exhalation of at least 6-7 seconds for your body’s parasympathetic nervous system to kick in (AKA the signal for your body to “rest and recover.” 

All parts of our body function better with more oxygen!


  1. Learn to breathe with your diaphragm.
  2. Shut your mouth… AKA practice nasal breathing. 
  3. To calm your mind and your body, exhale slightly longer than you inhale. Shoot for 5-6 breaths per minute.  Inhale 4, hold 2, exhale 6. If that is too challenging at first, start with inhale 3, hold 2, exhale 4. 

Be Your Own Guru: What I learned from spending 3 days with Laird Hamilton, Gabby Reece, and Brian Mackenzie.

Laird Hamilton, Gabby Reece and Brian Mackenzie are legends in the extreme sport biz. They recently combined forces and created XPTlife, a complete fitness-lifestyle program that includes bodyweight, gym and water workouts, combined with breathing and active recovery methods. By the way, XPT stands for Extreme Performance Training and these three walk their talk. Laird is most known for surfing giant waves (think 50 to 100 foot monsters), but is also an innovator of many board sports – if you have ever been on a Stand Up Paddleboard (SUP) you can thank Laird for that. His wife Gabby is a former professional beach volleyball player and an incredible role model for healthy living. Brian is the head program director for XPT and a world-renowned strength and conditioning coach.

Last week I had the the pleasure of helping out Laird, Gabby and Brian, and the entire XPTlife team during their inaugural XPT Experience Retreat here in Punta Mita, Mexico! Three days immersed in outdoor fitness, and body and mind wellness techniques – You can bet that I was a kid in a candy store. I soaked up every moment and have already incorporated some of their training principles into my routine.
Here are my 5 big takeaways from the experience:

1. Change is the only constant – The XPT Experience days are full. No moment is the same as the last. You begin with breathing, then pool workouts, strength class, ice plunge, hot saunas, and my beach bootcamp thrown in just for fun! When I began my fitness career, I taught 12 Taebo classes a week for 2 years straight. Every kick, every punch. I did not know how to talk and teach, I could only show (talk) and teach. My body broke and at 24 was over-trained and had constant sciatic nerve shocks running down both legs, chronic back pain, and insomnia. Not awesome. It wasn’t until I started strength training, mountain biking and trail running that I actually began to feel stronger in my body. Today, I am always throwing “out of the box” drills at my students and encouraging my clients to keep mixing up their movements and their workouts. You do not necessarily need to jump in an ice bath (although you may like it – see #2), but try using your less dominant hand to unload the groceries or brush your teeth! Just constantly mix it up!

2. Shock your system – Our society is conditioned for comfort. We get hot and we put on the AC. Two hours post-lunch and we are hangry for a snack. I joke that the reason my husband moved us down to Mexico was so he wouldn’t have to listen to me complain about how ‘cold’ I was all the time. Guest speaker, Dr. Andy Galpin explained that because we are always seeking (and finding) comfort our bodies have actually lost the ability to adapt. You know those people who obesessively shun carbs and now get sick after eating one chip? That is what he is talking about. XPT’s way of shocking the system is the infamous ice bath followed by the not-so-infamous hot sauna. There are physiological benefits to thermal contrast therapy such as blood and lymph circulation, but what we actually got to experience was overcoming something really, really, really uncomfortable. period. During my stage-racing days I had some painful and desperate moments (imagine 10+ hours on a bike saddle) but three minutes being a human slushy was infinitely harder. But I did survive.

3. Learn to breathe – You can live a month or more without food. A week without water, but only a few minutes without air. XPT’s Brian Mackenzie lead us through breath work every morning, either before or after our group workouts. Breath work is something I have toyed with since college, when my (slightly evolved) boyfriend introduced me to Qi Gong breathing techniques. Later I was inspired to start the practice of nasal breathing by performance breath coach Ed Harrold, and spent hours nasal breathing while training for MTB stage races. Brian too has taken different techniques and incorporated them into his classes. What I love is that he gives you different tools and encourages you to find your own practice. One morning, Laird said – “breathe until you see yourself.” I love that. We spend so much of our days looking outside of ourselves. Breath work, at the very least, will help you to get mentally present.       Bottom line – if you think you know how to breathe, you are wrong. Check out some of their breathing videos at:

4. Narrow your focus – So what do you do when you are swimming across a pool with weights while holding your breath? You find calm anywhere you can. Playing in the water holding dumbbells can be very scary for some. The uncertainty causes your breath and heart rate to speed up, and as a result you feel stressed. Gabby’s tip was to ‘narrow your focus’ – literally squint your eyes, because even the energy of looking around uses up valuable oxygen. Seriously. I like this tip and think this can be applied to our day to day life. If you have too many thoughts running around in your head and start to feel a little stressed, just narrow your focus. Pick one thing, knock it out and move on. Calm will follow.

5. Be your own guru – Gabby, Laird, and Brian are constantly researching and learning from the best in the business and openly share what they know. Each incorporates optimal wellness practices into their lives but are flexible and do not obsess about it (amen). They are continually evolving and admit that what they might be teaching in five years may be totally different than today. They also stressed that not every technique is going to work for every person. My advice? Instead of trying your BBF’s new diet or following your gym’s cookie cutter program, try waking up every day and tuning into how you FEEL. What does your body need today in terms of nutrition, movement and rest? Use your intuition. Wellness is not set in stone. Experiment with what makes you feel good, strong, energetic. Be your own guru.

The experience ultimately validated my own training/life principles and gave me more confidence in practices I always hope to inspire in others: Be open to learning new concepts, mix it up, get outdoors and play outside your comfort zone.

Laird told us a saying that they have in Hawaii, “It’s not who you are, but how are you.” I can tell you that besides being uber athletes, these three are kind, passionate and the real deal. If you get a chance to attend one of their workshops or one of their XPTlife Experiences, you will not be disappointed!


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